Life comes at you fast, sometimes too fast and at times you don’t have time to think or slow down before the next curve. Here’s 5 ways to get ready for those curves in your life. Warning: I’m only 28, but I’ve been through enough to warrant writing this post.
- Starting your own business - Feeling entrepreneurial huh? Well, here’s my piece of advice - if you don’t think you can pull it off, do it anyway. Doesn’t matter if you fall flat on your face, next time around you won’t. I know, because I learned by falling flat on my face the first time. Giving up is not an option.
- Babies and Diapers - They’re expensive. But even if you bleed with debt the smile they put on your face when they come running to hug you just wipes it all away in a millisecond. Money comes and money goes, but when kids come you don’t want them to go. I would advise you to stay smart about planning that aspect of your life though, because it will take a lot out of you.
- Growing Up - I’ll be 30 before I know it! I plan on having my retirement fund completely set up by then. I’ve been working on my web products, toning my skills, reading and experimenting as much as I can to get myself ready for the next phase of my life, the phase where I take action! A lot of time and planning went into this phase, I started by falling flat on my face first.
- Network Online and Offline - No matter how much you try to do things by yourself, sometimes you need a little help. There’s absolutely nothing wrong in seeking help from the contacts that you have built up. Remember successful people surround themselves with great people to help them become {more} successful.
- Free Your Mind - I think it was April/May 2006 when I had approximately $1.28, or something like that, in my PayPal account and no prospects of new freelancing jobs. I had a little obscure blog at the time and had a little contest to give $0.50 cents away {Lame, I know}. But a few people got in the competition for the fun of it. Then another week later I was giving away more cash in a new contest, as new funds had arrived from new jobs I got, just because I let my mind free from worries. I shut that blog down, mostly because the domain name sucked {see point number 1}.
A little reminder before you finish reading up, don’t forget to give back. Remember there’s always a straight road at the end of a curve, till the next one…



Lars-Christian on November 16th, 2007
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Excellent wake-up article Hyder. I can relate to a lot of what you mention, as I’ve recently been in a position where I have been forced to think long and hard about serious things like the future and all that.
All of it made me realize that while school is certainly important, there is no reason not to spend some time utilizing the multitude of opportunities that the internet has brought us, and that is also one of the reasons I am writing for you now =)
Sami on November 17th, 2007
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Thanks for the Article Hyder. I needed that encouragement.
Beth on November 19th, 2007
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I needed the encouragement too. After 3 years of curves and more curves I’m looking for a straighter path. It will come, I have to be patient. And keep taking Xanax.